Tuesday, February 9, 2010

One of the Greats.


The evening of March 10, 2002 was a glorious one. Despite this fact, I wouldn’t remember anything that happened that day had it not been for MTV airing Lauryn Hill’s Unplugged No. 2.0 that night.

I was only in the 9th grade, but I remember being completely engrossed, and when I watched it the next day, that excitement and wonder was still there. This work was a piece of underrated genius. There was so much raw honesty, truth and intensity. It’s a light in the darkness.

Lauryn encourages listeners to free their minds, see beyond the illusions, and heal. It’s hard to listen and not self-reflect: how free am I? how much do I truly see? how honest am I? what am I scared of? does my walk reflect my talk? how much of myself have I compromised? what have I compromised?

Surrounding this release were criticisms against Hill. “Is she crazy?” No. I don’t think she ever was. She just realized how maddening the world she lived in was and called it what it was. Those who exist in the matrix don’t appreciate being told they live in a matrix. Thus, the “crazy” title was born.

If you’ve never heard Unplugged No. 2.0, buy it and listen to it today. If it’s been a while since you last heard it, listen to it today. Whatever your situation, listen to it today. Just make sure that while you’re listening, you’re listening.

-Skipper

Friday, February 5, 2010

Good Point...




I was just sayin this the other day.... glad I aint the only one that noticed.

Skipper

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Nothing is For Nothing....

ENJOY.


*finger snaps*

Mastering the Art of Love.


I’ve spent the last few months contemplating love, dysfunction and the relationship between the two. Does the absence of love breed dysfunction? That question leads to several other questions, such as “what is love?” It’s an age-old question that I’m not equipped to answer with absolute certainty at this point (maybe another post), but I know that the two don’t comfortably co-exist, and yet so many operate in a constant state of dysfunction but try to invite love in and see no positive results. It’s both amazing and amazingly sad.

After a failed romantic endeavor, I spent months beating myself up about my ineptitudes, which–aha!–didn’t improve anything. Once I got over myself and was able to sift through all the many lessons, I found this:

How you love yourself is how you’ll love others.
Being able to love others only truly happens when you love yourself.
You learn love from your parents.
You also learn dysfunction from your parents.
At some point, you’ll have to sort out your mess from your parents mess and make new agreements with yourself about what you believe to be true.

Then, you’ll have to change the way you behave to support those new agreements.
Change doesn’t always happen as fast as we’d like.
People are constantly projecting their ideas of you/themselves/life/etc. See past the illusion.
If you keep attracting crappy people into your life…the common denominator is you.
There’s a chance that all our problems could be solved if we loved ourselves more.*
Self-love is a neverending quest; even at the destination, there is more journey.
I learned quite a bit more, but I’ll save that for personal conversations. One of my most recent ruminations is “is your love love?” Judging by the state of the world, I’m going to say that there’s so much brokeness that even mangled concepts of love are accepted and flourishing. I challenge you to ask yourself this question and be brutally honest with yourself. Denial will only serve the dysfuction, not the love.

Love’s in need of love today. And so are we.

* Results not guaranteed.

Think about it.


-Skipper

This Is Life.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Grammy Rehearsals: Last Year vs. This Year

The pics speak for themselves... just proves that ANYTHING can happen ina years time... Big ups to the homie Drake on his Grammy wins tonight... told yall niggas not to sleep on dude... He's nice remember I said it here first...


2009


2010



Young Moolah baby.