There is No Double Standard.

Man, before I start, I wanna say that CATTIN IS HIGHLY OVERRATED. Like its pointless... what it all comes down to is communication && people being real && muture about they shit man... I den got catted on too many times in the past couple days && its infuriating.

For those that don't know what "catting" is... allow me to enlighten you. The term catting is used when someone doesn't do what they say they are going to do... when they break the plan without letting the other parties involved that there has been a change of plans... basically leavin the other people hangin... which is NOT COOL.

I say that to say this... NO CAT ASSNESS please && thank you.

*Sigh* ahh that's better. Now that that's out the way.... back to your regularly scheduled programming.....


One of the many lessons I've learned in life so far is to totally accept people for who they really are instead of trying to change them in order to fit my ideal. With me being a person who tends top focus more on what needs to be done than what has alredy been done, it wasn't really easy for me to grasp onto that idea... to just stop being judgemental as I'm sure it is for others as well.

However, the lesson that is learned within the lesson or red between the lines as I see it, acceptance does not neccesarily mean involvement. Like when I say I accept someone for who they are, its more often than not misunderstood to mean that it is an open invite into my life. Which is ridiculous. For example.... when I accept you for being a horrible driver, I feel it would be hella dumb for me to then allow u to drive my car.... get it?

Maybe I'm wrong, but to me it seem as if people want it both ways, accept me as being irresponsible, but treat me like I'm the most responsible... etc. Don't make too much sense to me mayne....

Think about it.

QUESTION of the week

How do you define true friendship?


Now here’s the kicker…how many of your friends agree with your answer???

hmmm...

PAY ATTENTION FELLAS.... CLASS IS IN SESSION.

Looks like the "High One" had some knowledge on the art of the opposite sex....


“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”

- Bob Marley

sidebar: Speaking of Dr. Marley, Have you seen the Bob Marley "spirit" editon NBs?!?


YEsssssssssss... I will be swooping. :p

Shout out to the the think movement and sole redemption.

Motivation pt.2

Although I think everyone has the ability to be successful, I don’t think that everyone will be successful. I say this in reference of the people who for some bizarre reason don’t do anything towards being successful. hey talk a good game, but when asked what are the last three things done towards their goals…the answer is normally a re-astounding nada... nada... nada... not a damn thing!!! [Shout out to the homie jamesia for the quote]

I believe in never letting anything stop you from doing... even if you don't really know what you're doing. So many growth moments await you on your journey to succeed. I think its key to embrace your growth moments && be prepared to apply the lessons learned to your benefit @ a moment notice. Each step should/will reveal something that you would want to stop, start && continue in order to reach your goal. Buuuuuuut, it requires you to go out && do it mayne!

Ima end this shit in a quote, leave you niggas some hope, "Life is built for failure just as much as it is for success.  The most important thing to realize is that life is based on a system of free will."

Sit on that.

Question of the week

What do you regret more in life @ this point? The things you've done or the things you haven't done?

Keep It Coming Please

With me being 20 years old && accomplishing all the things that I have, && being where I am in life has allowed me to view things in a different light than most people would see. I'd like to say that I believe in the concept of the glass being half full instead of being half empty.

My perspective on things has been altered through countless experiences && life lessons that I have encountered. So when people ask me why I'm so opinionated on the subject of love && relationships, it basically because I feel I can be based on the fact that I know a lot about these things from both myself && from observing what other people go through.

I'm not saying ima expert or nothing along those lines, because there's still a lot for me to learn, after all I am only 20. But with that being said I find it flattering when peers come && ask how I feel about a situation because it shows that people respect me enough to ask my opinion.

Sorry Folks....

Yooooooooo!

Hello world, man... I wanna apologize to everyone that's been visitin lookin for new shit... man... I been MIA for the past couple weeks makin moves, gatherin my thoughts && what not... alots been goin on my life && I can't wait to share... lol

But yeah... I'm back don't worry folks I'm still alive I'll be back shortly to hit yall wit some more exclusive shit like only I can.

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