You cant say my nigga didnt hit that shit...

R.I.P Mike

Hahahaha I had to post it...

Birds of a Feather...

Stuck on Stupid.

man sorry about the lateness.. my stupid phone wouldn't let me send my new post so I had to get on my PC and do it manually.. technology.. psh.. but anyway here we go...

So I'm choppin it up a couple days ago wit none other than the homie Miss Daisy Espana aka Vitamin Deee && we got on the subject of how girls put up wit so much shit in relationships, like abuse, physically, emotionally, && verbally; because of the simple fact that they feel that they can't do any better or they're afraid of being alone. Which I think is the dumbest shit everrr...

I'm not gon speak too much on her situation but basically she was wit this dude for while && he wasn't treatin her with respect. So she did the right thing && cancelled that nigga... lol
I wish so many other girls would do shit like that. Its hella sad when I see girls that's not happy in their relationships but won't leave cuz "sumn holdin them back" psh bullshit... you actin like you can't live without the guy, u were fine before u met him.. So get it together! I personally think its a psychological problem where they feel that they have to endure the torture of a relationship like that in order to maintain a self confidence or sumn... Don't be so dependent on someone that doesn't have your best intrest @ heart....

I realized tho you cant dictate other peoples actions they need to be able to realize whats best for them themselves but until they realize it what you tell them wont even matter kus at the end of the day a person is gonna do what they wanna do regardless.....


Ahhhhhh I go on about this subject for days.... I might have a pt. 2 but for now yall sit take that in && think about it...

Shout out to frenchy, twitter.com/deeeelasoul

Skipper

There is No Double Standard.

Man, before I start, I wanna say that CATTIN IS HIGHLY OVERRATED. Like its pointless... what it all comes down to is communication && people being real && muture about they shit man... I den got catted on too many times in the past couple days && its infuriating.

For those that don't know what "catting" is... allow me to enlighten you. The term catting is used when someone doesn't do what they say they are going to do... when they break the plan without letting the other parties involved that there has been a change of plans... basically leavin the other people hangin... which is NOT COOL.

I say that to say this... NO CAT ASSNESS please && thank you.

*Sigh* ahh that's better. Now that that's out the way.... back to your regularly scheduled programming.....


One of the many lessons I've learned in life so far is to totally accept people for who they really are instead of trying to change them in order to fit my ideal. With me being a person who tends top focus more on what needs to be done than what has alredy been done, it wasn't really easy for me to grasp onto that idea... to just stop being judgemental as I'm sure it is for others as well.

However, the lesson that is learned within the lesson or red between the lines as I see it, acceptance does not neccesarily mean involvement. Like when I say I accept someone for who they are, its more often than not misunderstood to mean that it is an open invite into my life. Which is ridiculous. For example.... when I accept you for being a horrible driver, I feel it would be hella dumb for me to then allow u to drive my car.... get it?

Maybe I'm wrong, but to me it seem as if people want it both ways, accept me as being irresponsible, but treat me like I'm the most responsible... etc. Don't make too much sense to me mayne....

Think about it.

QUESTION of the week

How do you define true friendship?


Now here’s the kicker…how many of your friends agree with your answer???

hmmm...